Upcoming Social FMTY Ideas

I worked hard last summer and didn't take many breaks, but this Spring and Summer will be different! I've found many fun activities to do, and I'd love to go on a social date with you so we may enjoy them together.

Since most of these experiences occur at night, plan enjoying our late afternoon and evening together, staying overnight, then sharing breakfast together the next morning. I would fly into the city where we are meeting in the afternoon. Once I arrive, I will get checked into my hotel, then meet you for an early dinner or pre-event beverage. Then we’re off on our adventure! Afterwards, we can finish off the night with drinks, a late-night dinner, or some other late-night activity (there may be gaming involved if we’re in Las Vegas). The next morning, we will have breakfast together before saying our goodbyes.

These are exclusively public, social experiences. Your investment includes only my time and companionship — nothing more is expected or implied. All in-person dates with new friends require at least two prior videochats and screening.

Check out what I’ve found so far, and I’m sure I’ll be adding more as I discover them. And let me know if there's other events you'd like to experience together! There are also many other ideas on my In-person Dates page.

Because I lead a busy life, I would appreciate an absolute minimum of two week’s notice. Three to four weeks would be even better because tickets are going fast, and to save on airfare and hotel pricing. So don’t delay filling out my Booking form so we can start making plans!

Take Me Out to the Ballgame!

If you know me at all, you know I’m a die-hard St. Louis Cardinals fan and I’m on a quest to visit all the major league ballparks. So let’s go watch the Cardinals in a ballpark I haven’t yet visited. I’m also open to catching a game of your favorite team so we can experience a new ballpark together. Fill out my Booking form and let me know!

  • May 10th @ the Washington Nationals

  • June 12th, 13th, or 14th @ the Milwaukee Brewers (DMTY)

  • June 17th or 18th @ the Chicago White Sox (DMTY)

  • June 27th @ the Cleveland Indians

  • June 30th or July 1st @ the Pittsburgh Pirates

  • July 15th — the All-Star Game in Atlanta

  • July 22nd @ the Colorado Rockies

  • August 1st or 2nd @ the San Diego Padres

  • August 3rd, 4th, or 5th @ the Los Angeles Dodgers

Depending on my schedule, let’s discuss other games that start earlier than 3pm local time or games for other teams you’d like to attend.

Concerts

I love going to concerts and shows, and I’ve discovered a bunch of them this summer, and I’ll be adding more as they become available. I’d also love to join you at a concert of your favorite band if my schedule permits. Fill out my Booking form and let me know who you want to see this summer!

  • ColdPlay (Denver — June 10)

  • Dave Mathews Band (Cincinnati — June 13), (St. Louis — June 14), (Charleston — June 20), (Chicago — June 27-28 [DMTY]), (Indianapolis — July 11)

  • The Eagles (Las Vegas Sphere) — March 8, 15, April 12

  • Garth Brooks (Las Vegas Caesar’s Palace) — March 1, 8

  • Kenny Chesney (Las Vegas Sphere) — June 11, 13, 14, 18, 20, or 21

  • New York Philharmonic (New York’s Lincoln Center) Accompanying a screening of Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back — June 11, 12, or 13

  • Broadway Musicals in NYC on Multiple Dates: Book of Mormon, Hamilton, Harry Potter, Little Shop of Horrors, Moulin Rouge, or Wicked (let’s discuss shows & dates)

Long Weekend Events

These events require additional time commitments and consideration. Please complete the Booking form and I will touch base with you regarding the details.

  • The Masters Golf Tournament (Augusta, GA — April 12- 13)

  • Kentucky Derby (Louisville — May 3-4)

  • National Finals Rodeo (Las Vegas — December 12-13)

  • TBD (World Series)

Let me know if there are there any other things you’d like to experience (golf dates, hiking, cycling, etc.) this summer! I’m always up for an adventure!

THE FINE PRINT

Requested Investment

  • $1,000 for each of the above events (excluding Long Weekend events).

  • Good News! I am not requesting any additional travel time consideration for these excursions.

  • Want me to arrive earlier or extend our date after our morning breakfast? (Noon departure = +$275), (Mid-afternoon departure + lunch = +$475), (additional 24 hours = +$900 + hotel/meals) (Additional time subject to flight schedules and time schedule availability)

  • Note: Your investment is for my time and companionship only — nothing more is expected or implied.

Travel & Hospitality

All travel requires airfare and/or ground transportation. I organize all my own travel and hotel arrangements; however, please plan on providing for air/ground transportation, separate hotel accommodations (3/4-star minimum). Also please plan on providing meals, event tickets, merchandise, and any incidentals while we are together. All details will be discussed and agreed upon after verification but before sending a deposit.

Deposits

Your total investment will be provided to you prior to confirming our date and after verification. FMTY and time together requires a 50% deposit and 100% of travel/hotel expenses paid beforehand with the balance due in US dollars upon arrival. Deposit and travel expenses may be paid through CashApp, Venmo, or Stripe (major credit cards). If discussed beforehand, electronic funds may be accepted for returning clients for the remaining balance.

Cancellations

48+ hours — entire deposit applied toward a future date; 24-48 hours — 50% of deposit applied toward a future date; 8-24 hours — forfeit deposit; Less than 8 hours — forfeit deposit AND pay 50% of the remaining amount; Fail to notify, or notify at/after date start time — forfeit deposit AND pay the entire remaining amount

Note: All flight and hotel expenses are non-refundable.

Prerequisites

For new friends: At least two prior casual or spicy videochats and screening.